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10 Things I Think... Dear Santa.
So... I'm not quite in the Christmas spirit. At all. BUT. I still got a list of things I want from Santa. Like why is that kids have the...
Ashley Gray
Dec 24, 20193 min read


10+ Things I Think... The Ph.D. process be like...
1. Oh yay you got accepted. Aren't you smart!?! Issa celebration bishes! 2. Oh snap! I get a cohort. We're gonna be besties. We gonna...
Ashley Gray
Nov 19, 20193 min read


Hot Water Cornbread Chronicles
I tried to make hotwater cornbread tonight. I failed the first time. Remade my batter and went back from round two asking my Aunt to be...
Ashley Gray
Nov 6, 20193 min read


Cuffing Season Pre-Sale
With Cuffing Season approaching swiftly, I want to do a pre-sale on my rent-a-bae packages. Package 1: We go together for two weeks. This...
Ashley Gray
Sep 4, 20191 min read
The Weekend Sister
One weekend, many years ago, my brother said these words to me. It's as if time stood still because I can still hear him proudly proclaim...
Ashley Gray
Aug 21, 20192 min read


10 Things I Think... Break Ups Are Messy
Breaking up with somebody is never easy. I mean... you go through the phases- disbelief, sadness, anger, blocking them on social media,...
Ashley Gray
Jul 24, 20194 min read


Cognitive Dissonance and Death
What does it mean to love Christ but feel a cognitive dissonance of understanding his goodness when someone you love has died? My Aunt...
Ashley Gray
Jul 12, 20191 min read


10 Things I Think... Pluto, come out of retrograde. Please.
Pluto is in retrograde and I can’t stop these super reflective thoughts. Truthfully, I don't even know what that means. But, when I...
Ashley Gray
Jun 9, 20193 min read


The Soundtrack of my 30s (so far)
Let's be honest... nobody warned us for our 30s. No one told me that the metabolism that I thought was synomous with God's unmerited...
Ashley Gray
May 21, 20194 min read


10 Things I think as a delivert "pick-me"
So you all know I talk pretty openly about being a former "perfect" girlfriend. If you haven't read it, see here. Now that I'm delivert...
Ashley Gray
May 9, 20194 min read


10 Things I think... I love & hate the beauty shop
I seldom go to the beauty shop because I can do most things myself. Color though, nah. I need you to be licensed, a trained chemist and...
Ashley Gray
May 5, 20194 min read


Day 10 of comps... I just got approach by the long lost member of Full Force...
I've been MIA. I'm in the middle of comprehensive exams. As if taking classes and doing busy work isn't enough! Now I gotta do about 50...
Ashley Gray
Apr 5, 20193 min read


10 Things I Think... ValentiMes Day specials
Alright... here it is. First, I've not had a Valentine's Day that blew my socks off. Perhaps we care too much about the day? This year,...
Ashley Gray
Feb 10, 20193 min read


10 Things I think... It's too cold to...
It's so cold in the D. The district is so cold that people are doubling up on lace fronts for additional insulation... Here's a list of...
Ashley Gray
Jan 30, 20192 min read


10 Things I think... it's my favorite season- Tax Season!
1. Tax return money spends the same as other money. And honey, I like to think it is the top shelf of money. Like who doesn't get happy...
Ashley Gray
Jan 29, 20192 min read


10 Things I Think... Meek, You Tried It.
In light of Meek Mill's new twitter rant and because I had been planning a blog about how to troll mens (yes, mens) on the interwebs, I...
Ashley Gray
Jan 10, 20192 min read


10 Things I Think... Carolisms
At this point y'all know my momma is Carol. Carol is so complex that she deserves her own post. What to say about my momma...? 1. Baby,...
Ashley Gray
Jan 1, 20193 min read


10 Things I think... Get your momma please.
My last blog was about what I want in a partner. Number 6 in particular read, "Accepting family. After that last hoorah with the...
Ashley Gray
Dec 29, 20183 min read


10+ Things I Think...What Do I Want in a Mate?
Tonight my full intention was to think through some things I want to manifest into 2019. With school it's easy to come up with a clear...
Ashley Gray
Dec 28, 20183 min read


The one that got away... in whole foods.
A couple weeks ago I wrote on facebook about my dating troubles. I said something to the effect of we'll just have to meet at the store...
Ashley Gray
Sep 12, 20182 min read
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